SEX!
Now that I have your attention, let’s get to the facts!
Sex is good, no doubt about it. BUT it’s not good all the time!
Anyone who tells you different is either bragging about their sexual prowess,
hasn’t had enough sex to have an honest opinion or hasn’t had any at all!
And of course there are those that may be trying to talk you into having sex.
So let's get into some “NO BS”, “Non-Religious” truths about sex.
Let's get right to the point…
Love and sex more often than not have nothing to do with each other.
Certainly the words “I Love You” have gotten many a guy laid, and continues to be by far the most
effective way to get some action but often the words mean little else.
So ladies: If you’re going to give it up, take the fact that maybe you’re being lied to under consideration
and protect yourself. We have way too many Welfare mothers already!
Fellas: If you know you just want a piece, do us all a favor and use a freaking condom!
We have way too many dead beat dads already!
Note: If you're a teenager having sex, chances are you have no clue what you are doing and
are falling for every trick ever used to get laid so please USE A CONDOM!
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Tools of the Trade |
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There are hundreds of condom brands to choose from and they come in many shapes, sizes and colors.
But there is one absolute, no doubt fact you need to know about condoms: 100% LATEX!
Make sure any condom you use is a latex condom.
Get the ones that are lubricated.
They will be more comfortable for both guys
and girls. For extra protection use condoms
with spermicide.
Spermicide kills sperm.
Spermicide is sold without condoms but
don’t go there because it wont help prevent
Sexually Transmitted Diseases.
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So now you got yourself a funny shaped LATEX condom. What else do you need to know?
The condom should fit snug against your skin.
Don’t go with the extra large if you don’t need it,
it won’t help you get any bigger.
Expiration Date: Most condoms have about a
3 year life, if they have been stored
properly. So just like any other tool, make
sure it’s going to work correctly before
starting your project.
If the wrapper is old and crusty, broken, or
if the date has expired --- Don’t Use It!
Lastly: BRING YOUR OWN!
This means you Ladies also!
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Consequences of Unprotected Sex
So you think you don’t have the need for a good condom if your life?
Well consider the following:
Herpes (No Cure): About 1 in 6 adults in the United States has genital herpes.
So if there are more than six people in the room with you, one of them may have herpes.
HIV/AIDS (No Cure): Over 37 million people are infected worldwide.
In the U.S. half of NEWLY infected people are 25 or younger.
Ladies: 75 percent of women infected with HIV were infected via heterosexual sex.
Guys: This means you all are pretty much sticking it anywhere unprotected.
So girls, do you still think it’s cool to be a girl gone wild?
Syphilis: Most cases of Syphilis occur in people ages 20 thru 39.
Incidents are higher in women 20 thru 24 and men 35 thru 39.
A person can be infected with Syphilis for years and not know it.
Pregnancy: MORE TO FOLLOW!
For graphic pictures of what some STD's look like go to:
THE BODY: The Complete HIV/AIDS Resource
There a lot more Sexually Transmitted Diseases than the ones we’ve mentioned, so
do yourself a favor and do a search on the subject and educate yourself.
Google STD's or Sexually Transmitted Diseases and know what you're getting yourself into.
Pregnancy
We are all here because of it, but like sex, it isn’t always a good thing.
If you didn’t know already, the majority of pregnancies happen when a unprotected penis ejaculates
inside of an equally unprotected vagina. The sperm swims to the woman’s egg and a baby is made.
Unless the pregnancy was planned, what may otherwise have been a good sex session
becomes a major life issue. By the way, a pregnancy planned by only one of the sex
participants is not a very good plan. But it happens so PROTECT YOURSELF!
Don’t want the baby thing to happen?
Don’t give the sperm anywhere to swim!
USE A CONDOM, ENJOY THE SEX
and be done with it.
Unfortunately the great majority of the pressure and heartbreak
that comes from an unplanned pregnancy falls on the woman.
Guys will use just as many lies to deny being the father of an
unwanted child as they did to get sex from the woman they impregnated.
But make no mistake that the main victim is this dilemma IS THE CHILD!
OK, so a boy and a girl pretending to know what they were doing and using "LOVE" as the reason
to be having sex got themselves a baby in the belly problem. What to do?
Ladies: Don’t want the baby and you decide to have an abortion?
Please prepare for the bombardment of insults from Right to Life
religious groups that will be waiting outside the abortion clinic.
Seek counseling of a neutral party, meaning someone
who doesn’t have either pro-life or pro-choice agendas to fulfill.
Whatever choice you make, it’s not going to be easy.
If you decide to have the baby on your own and give motherhood a go,
DON’T BLAME THE CHILD FOR THE SUDDEN BURDEN
OF RESPONSIBILITIES IN YOUR LIFE.
Depending on your age and the reaction of those around you,
you may end up dropping out of school and becoming a welfare mother.
Don’t believe it – check the statistics on the subject.
Guys will certainly consider you an easy lay, which may lead to other unwanted children.
This especially holds true if you’re young.
Young guys are usually not out to become responsible for kids they didn’t create.
They are usually not responsible for the kids they did create, or themselves.
You may be too young to work and have issues with keeping your room clean and
all of the sudden you are responsible for a human being that can't clean him or herself.
Unless you are married or in a RESPONSIBLE relationship - you’re a sexual partner, nothing more.
So if you're gonna spread them legs, PROTECT YOURSELF.
Fellas: It's hard growing up without a responsible dad to look after you.
You probably know this from personal experience, so don’t create any kids you can’t be responsible for.
ENJOY THE SEX but PROTECT YOURSELF!
We all know girls that give it up to any guy that introduces themselves to them.
What does that make you if you go there?
Do you really want this girl to be the mother of your child?
Think!
You know you will not like anyone knowing you had sex with certain women,
so why not PROTECT YOURSELF!!!
Having sex does not make you a man. Creating a child does not make you man.
Fact is that in certain situations having sex and creating a child highlights
how little of a man you really are.
The sex will be there, it always has been, always will be so ENJOY IT but PROTECT YOURSELF!!
Being a dead beat dad can land you in jail nowadays if the woman pursues it; you will be expected
to pay one way or the other. The “she’s a ho that gives it up to everyone” excuse will not work.
Sex Urban Legends
| Some Myths |
The Facts |
| Sex or lack of sex gives you pimples. |
Pimples have nothing to do with sex or the lack of sex. |
| Sex feels better without a condom than with a condom. |
An orgasm without a condom feels the same as with a condom. |
| A guy can pull out just before orgasm so no worries about pregnancy. |
Sperm starts dripping long before the orgasm happens. |
| Can’t get Sexually Transmitted Disease from oral sex. |
Ever hear of Oral Herpes? Look it up! While you are at it look up other STD's you can get from unprotected sucking like HIV. |
| The Pill is all you need to prevent pregnancy. |
No birth control pill is 100% effective and they don’t prevent diseases. |
| Only men have sex with many partners. |
Women have just as many, if not more partners then men, they just don’t brag about it like men do. While men add to the number of actual sex partners they've had, women tend to subtract. |
| Sex without marriage is a ticket to hell. Ditto for Gay sex. |
Any and all religious based myths are mostly scare tactics. Although abstinence is a noble approach to sex – it’s not realistic. So as long as we're going to do it any way
LET’S DO IT RIGHT! | |
Are ya horny now???
I certainly hope you don’t think that the attempt here is to scare you so you wont have sex.
Nope! That is not the intention.
We just want you to be careful if you do have sex.
For sure the ideal way to have sex is on your honeymoon with the
person you love, but that doesn’t always quite work out, does it?
Protect yourself the best you can from sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies.
Sex can be quite fun and fulfilling but it isn’t always that way.
Just remember that some choices are much more permanent than others, so choose wisely.
There are many organizations out there that can help you find answers to questions before and after
you get yourself in a situation you didn’t expect. The main thing is to seek help immediately.
See: Help Links
for some helpful links.
IF YOU ARE HAVING SEX, PLEASE USE A CONDOM
AND PLEASE GET TESTED! YOU CAN GET TESTED FOR FREE AT
PLANNED PARENTHOOD AND OTHER ORGANIZATIONS.
Were done now so go on and
ENJOY SEX but PROTECT YOURSELF!